10

Kauai

One week.

That was all that remained and I was moving on, going to law school. Go through the week, graduate Saturday.

Staying with a friend because my lease is up. Come home from the gym and his study group is there finishing a marketing project. Cute girl. Excuse myself to make dinner. Pop my head out of the kitchen.

“Weren’t you in my finance class? two years ago? 8am? You always dressed up like you were going right to work after class. Everyone else was in shorts and hats.”

“No.”

She’s lying.

I sit amongst them and eat dinner, interrupting. My friend and another partner don’t seem to mind, as they peruse Playboy’s Girls of the SEC. She thinks they’re neanderthals. And they aren’t being respectful that there is a lady in the house, leaving magazines like that lying about. It’s a good issue though.

She’s moving to St. Louis to go to grad school at Wash U. Her boyfriend of three years is from there and he’s already moved back. Definitive. Solid plans.

“That’s cool.”

What are you doing?

“Law school.”

I sound more solid than I am.

Two hours later they leave. I lay on the couch talking to my friend.

“She’s cute” I say.

“Yeah she is.” he replies.

“I feel sorry for her boyfriend” I joke.

“Why?”

“Because he just lost his girlfriend.”

That was 17 years ago.

Today we’re married 10 years.

I don’t think I’ve been happier about an anniversary.

I asked her once why she left that boyfriend for me.

“He wanted me. You needed me.”

We’ve earned this one Mick.

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10 Responses to “10”

  1. Bluegreen Kirk July 14, 2011 8:46 am
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    Great story great ending! I like that the issue was a great on though. Congrats on the 10 year anniversary!

  2. Marty July 14, 2011 11:32 pm
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    Happy Anniversary guys, I remember that wedding and you guys every year !!! Love you! M

  3. Cindy Croom July 15, 2011 6:39 am
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    John and I were so honored to be with you on that special day. You have earned it! Be there for each other, always!

    Love,

    Aunt Cindy

  4. Jessalyn July 15, 2011 9:50 am
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    Happy Anniversary. It’s a great day.
    xoj

  5. Bandit July 15, 2011 11:39 am
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    You guys rock, happy 10th! I must admit, life is better with you guys in it.

    Surf Church for Life

    XO
    C

  6. Fabiola Handegard July 15, 2011 3:13 pm
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    I LOVE THE STORY. THAT IS TRUE LOVE.

    HAPPY HAPPY 10 ANNIVERSARY.

    LOVE YOU
    MOM

  7. Loretta July 15, 2011 8:19 pm
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    Happy 10th Anniversary! Love you guys. So happy for you.

    Loretta

  8. Bill July 19, 2011 5:08 pm
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    Linked to your site with Spencer. We just got back from camping at Leo
    Carrillo, and were looking for pictures of the sea caves, and we saw a great picture of someone in the tree at site 54. Hey, that’s our friends we said, and then we started looking at some of your more recent posts. Congratulations on your anniversary! Spencer didn’t exactly understand why your blog brought a tear to my eye, but it did. Love and continued happiness to your family from ours!
    Bill & Spence

  9. AJ July 19, 2011 5:57 pm
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    Bill, what a surprise!
    Thank you for the kind words. Looking forward to seeing you soon, we’ve seen much more of Annette lately!

  10. Mom & Dad July 20, 2011 7:43 pm
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    You have both earned this one, for sure! I remember all the amazing pieces of this relationship and the beauty and love of that wedding day. Happy Anniversary to you both.

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